Join Me for a Facebook Live Today (Thursday, February 8)!

I would for you to join me for a Face book Live in my group today. It will be at 1:30 pm EST and I will be talking about some specific ways you can make Lent meaningful this year.

Let’s make this year a Lent where you truly deepen your relationship with the Lord, rather than just going through the motions!

I hope to see you there!

What is the Cost of a Child? Priceless!

Right before the New Year, someone posted the following statistic on Facebook:

 “If you have a child in 2012, from then till 18 it will cost $256,000.00 for basic care.”

Basic care includes health care, clothes, etc. Not the extras, such as sports or music lessons and such.

What I found the most interesting and sad wasn’t this statistic as much as the comments to it.

People made comments similar to “I am so glad I don’t have a kid.” “No wonder our economics are the way they are! and others. The gist of the comments were that children are a burden and too expensive.

Now don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that raising a child isn’t expensive. I have a son. I know how expensive it is. But so often we focus on the negatives of having children. (Even people who are decidedly pro-life can fall into this trap!) It is the sense of entitlements and “me, me, me” in society is one of the things that make people see children as a bad thing, rather than a good thing. Here in America, and I daresay in other countries, too, money has become more important than people.

This belief contributes (but in no way is the only reason) to the acceptance of abortion, the prevalence of abuse of children (in all of its forms) and the respect of life in all its stages.

I would like to propose an alternative. Children are a blessing. PEOPLE are a blessing, whether they are old, disabled, or mentally impaired. Every single person is made in the image of God. Without being reckless or foolish, let’s not let money be the only criteria in our response to the life of another human being. Raising a child may be expensive, but it doesn’t really matter how much a child costs. If God gives a child He will help the couple (or the single parent) raise that child, IF that couple (or parent) trusts in Him. The money will be there.

Unfortunately, there are many people who don’t believe in God or have the faith that He will be there for them in any circumstances, including the raising of a child. Let us pray for them. Let us pray for a renewed respect for life and the courage for all people to accept the gift of a child (or children).

 Heavenly Father,

You are an awesome God! Thank you for the gift of life. Thank You for the gift of children. All children are a blessing. Each child, each person, is unique, special and made in Your image. Help us to have a renewed respect for all life, in all of its stages. Help those who see children as a burden or too expensive. Help those who had the courage to raise a child and are now struggling financially, emotionally or spiritually. Raising a child can be difficult and a challenge but it can also be a joy and rewarding. Fill all parents and all soon-to-be parents with Your love and grace. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

Check Out my New Facebook Landing Page!

I created a very simple landing page for my Simple Catholic Living Facebook fan page using the tutorial. Go take a look and let me know what you think!

By the way: Amy’s instructions are nicely detailed and easy to follow, so if you are looking to create a landing page for your own page, I highly recommend her tutorial.

Don’t forget to LIKE my page when you check it out. I’ll soon be adding more tips, resources and other “Catholic stuff” just for my page “likers”!

Go here to check out:

If you have a fan page, be sure to let me know, so that I can “like” you back. 🙂

Tip for Keeping Track of Online Passwords

This isn’t my usual kind of post, but I was changing/updating my passwords and thought I would share a little tip for storing and keeping track of all the passwords you have from the various websites, forums and groups you belong to. 🙂

A lot of people use Microsoft® Excel or other safe-guarded program on the computer. Personally, though, I’m not comfortable with storing my passwords on the computer. You never know when/if your computer is going to crash (mine has twice!) and if your backup fails, you’re in trouble.  Besides that, there is always the possibility of your computer being compromised, no matter how careful you are.

Here’s my tip:

Use an address book. Write in your user name and password for each site alphabetically in the address book and then you will have easy access to your passwords in case you forget. For example: I have my user name and password for my Facebook account filed under “F” and my user name/password for my Twitter account is filed under  “T”, etc.

For a long time, I just used a notebook dedicated to my list of passwords. It was convenient, but I would have to search through lists of passwords before finding the one I needed (if I couldn’t remember the password or where in the list I’d written it). The address book, on the other hand, is safe, convenient and organized – and that works for me!

Have your own system for storing and/or keeping track of your your passwords? Please leave a comment and share it with us!