How to “Get Something” Out of Mass (Practical Steps)

In the previous installment of “How to ‘Get Something’ Out of Mass” I said I would share some practical tips and ideas for getting the most out of the Mass. Pick a few and them give them a try for a few weeks. If they work, great keep doing them and add a couple more. If not, scrap them, pick a couple different ones and try those.


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Before Mass:

1. Pray the Scriptures.

Sometime during the week, spend a few minutes reading  and praying over the Scripture readings for the coming Sunday. If you can read them on Saturday, that would be best that way they will be fresh on your mind come Sunday morning.

2. Get ready the night before.

Lay out the clothes and shoes for you and your family. Set the table for breakfast if you will be eating before the one-hour fast kicks in. Do whatever you can the night before that will make the morning go smoother and easier to get out the door in time for Mass.

3. Arrive 5-10 minutes early.

I know that sounds impossible, but if you can get to church early it will give you time to take the kids coats off (in winter), settle them down and do any last minute runs to the bathroom before Mass starts. It will also give you time do do #4.

4) Spend a few minutes in prayer.

Give your heart and mind a few minutes to quiet down and settle your heart. Re-read the scriptures for the Mass and give yourself to enter into the mystery that is about to begin.

During Mass:

5. Minimize distractions.

Getting rid of distractions all together is impossible. Well, it’s impossible for me, at least. But you can do things like avoid looking around the church, talking or whispering to those around you and such to minimize them. (One of the reasons I where a mantilla, or chapel veil is because it helps me to keep focused on what’s happening in front of me, not around me – but chapel veils is for a whole other topic of discussion!)

6. Stick to the missal.

This is actually a technique for avoiding distractions. Since the changes to the mass came out over a year ago we all went back to the missal to learn the new wordings. But whether you have all the responses memorized or not, reading along is a great way to keep focused. It also gives a whole new perspective. Sometimes when I’m following along with the priest by reading I’ll see something that I never noticed before.

7. Answer the responses.

A huge part of Mass is the communal participation of the faithful in the liturgy. We are supposed to respond at the appropriate places and sing along with the various songs at Mass. I don’t know about where you live, but where I live in NJ, the communal participation is sorely lacking. Very often the only people I hear singing along with the choir is myself (which is rather scary!) and my family.

After Mass:

8. Make your thanksgiving.

Years ago it was the norm that people would say for few minutes to thank the Lord after receiving communion. Nowadays, the priest is barely off the altar before people are rushing out of church. Resist that urge. Try and take a few minutes (or even one or two minutes) to make your thanksgiving and thank the Lord for coming to you. I remember being told by the sisters when I was with them that the body and blood of our Lord remain undigested for about 10 minutes after you receive communion. I don’t know for sure if that is true or not, but it’s certainly something being mindful of.

9. Discuss the Mass with your family.

On the car ride home or during lunch or dinner talk about the mass as a family. What was their favorite (or worst) part of the homily? What did the priest mean when he said such and such? How can we practically live out something that we heard at Mass today?

10. Prepare for next week.

The Mass is the most central part of our lives as Catholics. We are called to live out the liturgy in our lives and live for the liturgy (figuratively speaking.) Look forward to going to Mass each week. Go to daily Mass when you can. Read different books about what the saints say about the Mass. Read the Catechism of the Catholic Church about the Mass. The more you live your life within the liturgy the more the liturgy will live within you. (<–Tweetable!)

What about you? What are your favorite tips for getting the most out of Mass? If you feel like you don’t get anything out of Mass, why? We can all use a little help in getting the most out of the Mass so let’s get a conversation going about this.


P.S. If you want support and accountability in living out your spiritual life, including getting the most out of Mass and prayer, I encourage you to get on a free clarity call with me. Together we can explore the possibility of working together in a way that further supports you and help you go deeper into your relationship with God.



  1. Great post. I think getting to Mass early is a big key for me. I take some time to pray before the Blessed Sacrament beforehand. It opens my mind and heart!
    Colleen…recently posted…Sabbath Moments – Finding Time to PrayMy Profile

    • SimpleCatholic says

      I agree. Getting to church early is my best way for settling down and getting ready to get into the Mass.

  2. #6, Yes, following along in my missal helps me stay focused. Good suggestions. Before I had children, I prepped and arrived early! Now it’s all different, of course. Peace

    • SimpleCatholic says

      I know what you mean. I only have one son but I still push the limits of getting to mass on time sometimes!

  3. Excellent tips, Carol. Because my husband is in music ministry, we’re always at Mass a half-hour beforehand. I can’t say how helpful it is to be there well in advance. Time in front of the Blessed Sacrament is essential. Regarding minimizing distractions, this has become so much easier now that our kids are older, but this was challenging when our kids were small and my husband was on the altar playing music.

    • SimpleCatholic says

      It is a lot harder getting to church on time let alone early with little ones. It’s not always possible to start getting ready for church earlier.

  4. #10 is important, but I think it connects back to within the Mass–we have to be listening for what action we’re called to take out of the church, via the readings or prayers or some insight gained in prayer…Scripture, prayer are important–vital–but they’re not the whole story of living Catholic, either. Being Catholic has to be visible in the way we talk and the things we choose to do or not do. That’s what your point: “prepare for next week,” said to me.
    Kathleen Basi…recently posted…Sunday SnippetsMy Profile

    • SimpleCatholic says

      Yes, that’s exactly right! In Mass we get what we need to be living, fruitful Catholics and by living a fruitful, living Catholic living will help us get more and more out of the Mass.

  5. Donna D’Annunzio says

    We have a few priests that are very hard to understand what they are saying during the homily. This upsets me because when I leave I feel like I missed a big part of the mass.

    • SimpleCatholic says

      That’s a good point, Donna. I’ve had that issue before and very tough, if not impossible, to resolve. For me, it helps to sit up close (within the first 3 rows). It isn’t ideal and doesn’t always work but sometimes it helps. Is it possible to talk with the priest and ask him to slow down when he speaks?

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